[keep] up appearances
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to act and behave as if everything is fine so that others do not find out about one's problems
The idiom "keep up appearances" originated from the notion of maintaining a certain outward image or perception, often to conceal or disguise one's true circumstances, feelings, or intentions. The phrase signifies the act of presenting oneself or one's surroundings in a manner that upholds a desired impression or societal expectations, regardless of the underlying reality. This expression is commonly used to describe situations where individuals or groups make efforts to appear a certain way externally, even if it contradicts their internal state or actual circumstances.
- Despite their financial struggles, the family tried to keep up appearances by hosting lavish parties and buying expensive items.
- She smiled and acted cheerful at work to keep up appearances, even though she was going through a difficult time personally.
- The politician maintained a polished public image to keep up appearances, carefully managing their public relations.
- The crumbling mansion was meticulously maintained on the outside to keep up appearances, concealing the decay within.
- The couple's troubled marriage was hidden from friends and family as they tried to keep up appearances of a perfect relationship.